Monday, August 26, 2024

Lauren Baker Crossland 1965-2024 Obituary



Lauren Baker Crossland, a devoted wife, sister, aunt, and friend, passed away unexpectedly but peacefully at her residence on Wednesday, August 21, 2024, at the age of 59. She was born, on August 17, 1965 to Walter and Rachel Baker, in Gaston, NC.

Lauren was the devoted wife of Jem Crossland, with whom she shared 25 wonderful years of marriage. She is also survived by her beloved sister, Cheryl "Bunny" Robins, and her husband Dave; as well as her brothers, Stan Baker and his wife Connie, and Charlton "Chip" Baker. Her cherished nieces, Cheri Stringer and husband Chris and Juli Brocato and husband Andy will also remember Lauren fondly. 

Throughout her life, Lauren was known for her adventurous spirit. She loved music, traveling, and being out in nature. Whether she was under a parasol at the beach, exploring the mountains, traveling out west to see friends, or to attend music festivals; she found joy being in the moment and reminiscing adventures gone by. She loved riding on the back of her husband's motorcycles. Lauren and Jem often took to the open road, embracing the thrill of the ride.  

Lauren loved music. She found inspiration in various genres, but especially loved rockabilly and old country music.  She was supportive of her husband's rockabilly band, Jem Crossland & the Hypertonics at venues from NC to AZ.  Lauren was even known to get up on stage with Jem occasionally to sing her go to favorite, "There He Goes" by Loretta Lynn.

Lauren offered housekeeping services for most of her working life. When she wasn't cleaning the homes of her clients, she enjoyed maintaining and updating the Baker family home, that she and Jem bought after Mr Baker died in 2017.  She enjoyed cooking holiday meals for her family after Mrs Baker died in 2004.  She was always happy to prepare a side dish when getting together with her longtime friend Tammy Gordon Holt for a summer pool party. She would thoughtfully prepare snacks for friends that might join her and Jem on road trips.  Most of all she loved preparing meals that she shared with her husband Jem.

Lauren was very tender hearted to animals.  Whether it be a stray cat or dog, a wild creature showing up at her doorstep, or a crab zigzagging its way across the beach - she wanted them to be safe and not mistreated.  Her two beloved cats, Engine and Tiger will miss her immensely.  

Lauren was preceded in death by her parents, Walter Baker and Rachel Brackett, as well as her and Jem's favorite dog, Blitz.

A celebration of life service will be held on Sunday, September 15, 2024 at 2:00 p.m. at First Baptist Church of Mt. Holly.  Visitation will be held one hour prior to the service from 1:00 p.m. - 2:00 p.m.